COMMENTARY: Dover bonds together as champions not on field but in life
By Keno Sultan
Stark County Prep Press writer
NEW PHILADELPHIA--As I was on the field prior to the 123rd meeting between rivals Dover and New Philadelphia, a Dover woman held me in a tight, long hug and said nine words with all heart and soul attached to them.
"I love you Keno. I love you very much."
I felt those words. I felt the heart and soul. I felt the pain, hurt, life and love in that hug. I found myself wiping away tears while bravely fighting them back. I told her that I loved her too while holding back my emotions per my journalistic etiquette.
This year, the entire Dover community went into the New Philadelphia rivalry game and it was unlike any other. For the second time in five weeks, a tragic situation once again engulfed that proud community. It left me putting life in perspective even more.
Sometimes we as human beings wonder why tragic situations occur. We don't know why. It's not our job to inquire why this happened a second time. That is not for a debate, discussion, or negotiation. It is our duty to show love, care, and compassion to the affected.
What hurt me this week also were some things on Facebook that were said about Dover High School educators, administrators, students and residents. It's bad enough to disagree with things and that's human nature. However, when I saw a post from a Dover resident who labeled those same high school educators, administrators and student-community-athletes as "racists", I thought to myself, how do you think their spouses feel seeing that? How do you think their sons and daughters feel seeing that? How do you think their nieces and nephews feel seeing that? How do you think any educator and administrator in the Dover City Schools feel seeing that from their three elementary schools all the way to the middle school and the high school? And mind you, most of them are alumni who received that same education in the school system they are proudly a part of.
Dover went into Friday's game against the Quakers with a chance to win the Ohio Cardinal Conference title outright albeit with a heavy heart in part to the tragedy that occur. Again, what happened is not for a debate, discussion, or negotiation.
Adversity hit the Tornadoes family like a peak Mike Tyson throwing punches with force powerful enough to make opponents cave in and quit. That adversity was felt twice when New Philadelphia concocted leads of 21-10 and more importantly a 28-18 lead with three minutes to go. A lead like that in Woody Hayes Quaker Stadium is like hot Quaker oatmeal ready for consumption to begin an average school day.
It will have been understandable if the Tornadoes had abdicated. No one would have said a word. But quit never resides in that city. I think about a sign of a picture of Dover Avenue Elementary School that says three words that sum up the Tornadoes football season: "Never, ever quit."
In three minutes and down 28-18, Dover scored two unlikely touchdowns from quarterback Dieter Weber. But it was the second one to Dante Clark in the closing seconds of regulation that was poignant. Clark pointed to me before celebrating with his teammates and that point let me know something: Dover will always be here.
In the heaviness of what was an emotional week, everything spilled out on Quaker Stadium. Students hugged players. Players hugged parents. Coaches hugged their wives and children. Strangers hugged each other. And you know what? It wasn't just one race. It was both races of black and white individuals from that same Dover. I saw people united for the right to be outright and undefeated Ohio Cardinal Conference champions.
Now mind you, I am not a Dover native. I have friends from Mount Union who are Dover natives and it is safe to say their tradition has rubbed on to me. I see for myself what makes Dover the non-failing community that it is even in the face of adversarial situations.
We all go through grief, sorrow, and a hard time in life. No one is immune to it whether you are Christian, Jewish, Muslim, or whoever you worship. To the people who are putting down the Dover High School family and residents like an open cavity, I want you to think about this:
Think about when you were a kid. Think about the time you attended Dover Avenue, Dover East or Dover South elementary schools. Then think about how you attended the middle school. And then think about your four years at the high school. Are you going to disparage those same friends you had in school, those same friends who are educators and administrators in the school district? Are you going to disparage your former educators and administrators too? Are you going to disparage your coaches and classmates too?
Friday night, I saw happiness to end what has been a trying week for the Dover community. It was last year football coach Matt Rees talked to me about never leaving the side of anyone in adversity. Last year, Dover finished 4-6 but not one player quit the team. The football team was at a crossroads following a loss to Louisville, a loss that threatened to be ruinous. But they responded in a way that former coach Dan Ifft would be elated: they ended the regular season on a six-game winning streak.
As the high school playoffs approach, please be reminded there are 27 weeks of school left. Seniors have 27 weeks before they embark on the next phase of their life, whether it be enrolling at a college or university, enlisting in the military or settling into the workforce. Teachers and educators have only 27 weeks remaining with those students, who they may or may not ever see again after that time. Some of those seniors just may return to Dover as teachers in one of the five schools and may even coach a sport.
To the Facebook poster who acrimoniously labeled Dover High School educators and administrators as "racists" and to others who slandered those in the district, I urge you to arrange a private and respectful meeting with them. Speak of your concerns to them. Speak of how you can assist them. Involve yourself with a PTG group. Get to know other parents and share ideas with them. Be involved with the Dover community. Assist other children and implement ideas with them. They would love to hear from you. They are already going through a hard time in their lives. Don't make it any more cumbersome for them with further unwarranted slander.
Friday night, the true heart and soul of the Dover family came out. And it is a reason why they are the king of OCC football in their very first season. Dover not only bonds together as champions on the field but most importantly in life.
To the Dover High School family, Head coach Matt Rees and family, coaches, team and everyone involved with DHS and the Dover City Schools and residents of the city of Dover, you are champions not on the field but in life. That was on display last night. And as Super Bowl XXIX MVP Steve Young said, "No one can ever take it away!"












